Posts Tagged family
Bearing Witness to Change
This weekend, I went to a funeral for a woman who was born in 1910. She died on Memorial Day at the age of 101. A true celebration of life, the funeral service for my Great-Aunt really got me thinking of the amazing change and advancements she witnessed.
In her lifetime, she watched as communication shifted from the first radio stations to iPhones and Twitter. Music on the radio shifted from jazz and big band to 80s rock and hip-hop. She heard of Charles Lindbergh flying across the Atlantic, the U.S. landing on the moon and satellite exploration of our solar system. She lived through too many wars. Her family drove some of the first cars, and now, we’ve developed cars to run on electricity (albeit, not very far).
The technological advances that she witnessed are nothing short of amazing and overwhelming.
As a Millennial, I’m wondering if I will experience the same leaps and bounds in society and technology.
Sure, new things will be invented to make our lives easier, faster and more convenient. We will experience our own social injustices and fights for equality. Undoubtedly, war will continue and evolve. But, will we bear witness to changes that are so widespread and life-altering? I’m not so sure.
Need-to-knows: Eastern Europe
I just returned from an amazing vacation in Europe, where my family and I ventured to Berlin and Prague. I plan on posting my photos to my Flickr account and tossing up at least one additional blog post, but here is my quick recap of Prague (and a subsequent generalization for all of eastern Europe).
What you need to know about eastern Europe:
Sausage. Everywhere. And, it is delicious.
Sharing News in the 21st Century
Well, as many people know… I am recently (very recently) engaged. The past 24 hours have been exciting, happy, busy and overwhelming. Wisely, I waited until the next morning to start sharing the news with family and friends. This is, by far, the biggest news I have ever had to share with so many people and I wasn’t entirely prepared for the process.
Naturally, the first form of communication was a phone call to my parents and sister, followed by a picture text of the ring. Following a phone call to my grandma, I resorted to text message to share the news en masse. All of this, plus the phone calls that followed were completely expected. However, the announcement via social media was quite a task.
Congratulations tweets from Madeline Koch and Paul DeBettignies were the beginning, followed by congratulations and excitement from all of the great people I know online and in real life. The official changing of the Facebook status and obligatory photos unleashed even more.
I am so very grateful to have so many people who care about me and love me. And that isn’t the point of this post. I am truly amazed at how differently information is shared, especially huge life-changing information. The utter speed of communication and response is exciting, and alarming! I am still working to catch up, say thank you and update everyone on the news. This entire process has truly opened my eyes to communication of the future, and at the same time, how traditional communication – over the phone and in person – is still necessary, and important.
Well, I’m off to make more phone calls to family, but this is definitely a moment and a day that I never want to forget. Thank you to all of you for being my support, sounding boards, friends and mentors.
Home, and unplugged, for the Holidays
This afternoon I officially begin my holiday vacation, which consists of driving to Omaha until Saturday then returning to the Cities and continuing on to Green Bay for my first-ever Packer game at Lambeau field (cue music).
While my time at home will be relatively low-key, I am determined to maintain a healthy distance from online and social media. Blogs, Twitter and Facebook are a part of my everyday routine, but I don’t want to lose or miss out on the magic of family during the holiday season: playing board games, watching mom struggle with the Wii
and enjoying movies.
That’s why I am braving a potential blizzard to drive six hours through Iowa. I’m not driving home to jump on Twitter or blog about my Christmas, recent news or any other daily ramblings I may have.
I don’t pledge a full black-out from social media, but my posts will be more scarce, tweets more infrequent. Have a wonderful holiday, and make sure to enjoy quality time with those you are with.
We’ll talk next week!
Doorbusters aren’t a Deal Breaker
Posted by Kristin in In the News on November 24, 2009

With the holiday weekend getting closer and closer (11 hours, 10 minutes to be exact) consumers will be inundated with fliers and ads announcing this year’s coveted Black Friday deals. Several new stories this year have investigated the legitimacy of advertised deals and the likelihood of consumers actually getting their hands on the 50″ HDTV at Walmart for $498.
It is my belief that the smart shopper understands the concept of limited numbers of merchandise in each store. I don’t expect every Best Buy to have enough TVs at the lowest advertised price for every consumer. I understand that they are simply trying to get me in the door in the hopes that I will purchase something else. And, I’m ok with it.
For me, shopping on Black Friday is less about getting the cheapest pair of Dockers for my dad, and more about the shared experience with my mom and sister – and the thousands of others at the mall. It is a tradition that I look forward to every year – where success isn’t based on how many gifts we cross off our lists, but by how much fun we had.
I am curious to know if I am crazy – shopping on Black Friday for fun. So, if you are a Black Friday shopper: Why do you do it?
Maintaining Traditions
With the holidays quickly approaching, the cooking and baking of traditional Scandinavian foods begins – for my family at least. This weekend my grandma, aunt and cousin will be making lefse and it got me thinking: Are we losing family-based traditions in today’s retail world?

Traditions have been continued in our family for generations. Lefse, lutefisk (eww), Swedish meatballs, spritz cookies and more are served every year, no matter how many times I say that I don’t like lutefisk. However, it seems that the number of individuals who know how to prepare them is getting smaller.
I am just as guilty as others. I have not watched my grandma and aunt make lefse. I don’t know how to use the cookie press to make the special cookies. Is it because I’m sure I could find out how online? Or I know I could run down to the store and buy it? Or am I just relying on someone else to know how?
The responsibility falls to me to observe, learn and continue the traditions that I believe are important. However, I am curious if anyone else is experiencing something similar and your thoughts on the cause and/or solution.
Photo credit: theconglomerate.org
Thanks to Dave Erickson for teaching me the style coding. NOTE: I can’t, for the life of me, figure out how to make the text wrap further up the image. If anyone has any tips, I would greatly appreciate it!

